

1 expert answered: Anna
Review Data Together
The wording I use, when a patient arrives convinced she has a specific condition based on her own research, is: "I'm glad you've been paying attention. Let's look at the same data together and see what we find."
That opening does the most important thing first. It refuses to dismiss the research. Most clinicians, when faced with a patient's self-research, default to either correcting them ("the internet isn't reliable") or accommodating them ("let's run the test you want"). Both lose the patient. The correction makes them defensive. The accommodation makes them less trusting of the eventual answer, because they sense the clinician has stopped thinking.